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Dear Dove Bulletin readers; I caught my husband with another woman in our home this afternoon

Dear Dove Bulletin readers; I caught my husband with another woman in our home this afternoon

From a female Dove Bulletin reader

I'm really heartbroken right now and I need to get this out of me as I don't know what to do. I have been with my husband for over 7years and married 5. Been praying to God for children. Came back home from work early this afternoon to find him with this girl on our matrimonial bed. She had just taken her top off on top of him. It really hurts mostly because I am a devoted wife and Christian and he knows very well what my home means to me...My bed for that matter. We have been best friends since we got married and we hardly have any friends left as we are always together... It's been great and although something always reminds me that a man will be a man. I never thought he could bring a stranger into our home.....my bed

She said they met on FB and this was the first time they saw each other physically. She was very apologetic, she didn't realise he is married. They were just starting when I walked in and she said they've never had the main thing.

For the last 3 years, I've covered 98% of all our expenses. He doesn't earn much so I pay for everything......the rent ...everything plus any other financial support you can think of. I feel so used. He is divorced and his previous wife left him for the same reason. I should have dug deeper before we got married but love covered my eyes.

The normal me wants to close this chapter completely by walking away and just starting my life afresh. But being a Christian the spirit of God in me is saying I should exercise patience. Which I know is the right thing but will be difficult.

What's most upsetting is his lack of remorse. I kicked him out of the house when I let the girl out as I just couldn't stand him. He came back hours after to pick his bag...which I am happy about as I need a break. Gosh, my blood is BOILING......the normal me is so tempted to react.

Please, someone, tell me what you'll do in this situation. I am home and tempted to go back out and just start a new life.

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