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6 ways to know a good relationship

You love him, he loves you. You feel like he’s the one. So how do you know if he will marry you? These indicators should give you a clue.

1. You speak in “when’s, not “if’s.

If your guy starts sentences with, “When we get married,” he has made up his mind; he wants you to be his wife. You may not get engaged the next day or even the next year, but if your relationship stays on its current trajectory after a statement like that, you are most likely going to end up as man and wife.

2. You are invited to his family events

If he imagines you have a lead role in the big picture, he will invite you as his better half to special events. He wouldn’t want his family and friends to get close to you if he didn’t want you to stick around for the long haul.

3. He considers you part of his team

Because a guy’s career is the main part of his identity, confiding in you about work problems or crediting you for work successes means that he values you as an equal.

4. He has married friends

Does he roll his eyes at every wedding invitation he gets? Or moan about another double date with your married friends? This could be a giveaway that he’s not ready yet. But if most of a guy’s friends are married already, he’s going to start feeling like the odd man out and be more comfortable taking the leap himself.

5. He says you’re the “first” or the “only” one who…

Every woman knows that men throw around a lot of superlatives as pick up lines even if they don’t really mean them. I’m sure we’ve all heard from the guy at the bar that we are “the prettiest girl” he’s ever seen. But if he’s still praising your superiority after you’re in a committed relationship, the chances are that he means it and that means something.

You might start thinking about marriage, too, if he’s the one

6. He already acts like your husband

At the end of the day, marriage is just a formality. That’s not to say it doesn’t mean something, but it doesn’t cause the dramatic change in your relationship that many people imagine after the honeymoon phase, at least. If he already treats you like his wife confiding in you first about big decisions, supporting you, constantly expressing his love and commitment to you, he’s definitely ready to make it official.

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